The Power of Prayer- Conner's Story
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Posted: 10:06 AM Nov 25, 2008
Last Updated: 10:06 AM Nov 25, 2008
Reporter: Nicole Holt
Email Address: nicole.holt@kxii.com


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The smile on his face is worth a thousand words, because just 2 ½ years ago, a facial expression was almost impossible. Now, 4-year-old Conner McDougall is proving miracles every day.

“I think the biggest thing is that I look back on that day. The day of the accident when doctors pushed to let Conner go, they said he would be a vegetable the rest of his life,” Conner's mother, Sonya McDougall, says.

In May 2006, little Conner was the only survivor of a wreck in Dickson, Oklahoma, that killed his father and older brother. Doctors said he wouldn’t make it, telling his mother, Sonya, to turn off the life support.

“I went with my faith in God. This is not what Conner is supposed to be. Trust in God. I went on with my faith and believed that no matter what it would be okay.”

Now more than two years later, Conner is proving the power of prayer. Shane Stoval, Conner’s physical therapist says,

“The diagnoses they gave Connor is that he should be flaccid. No movement at all, just flapping."

But Conner’s progress has improved tremendously. In our interview, Conner was not only able to stand on his own, but he was also kicking his legs and moving his arms.

Conner has a long way to go, but they believe this super hero will pull through. Even though he’s still relying on his ventilator, Conner is slowing learning how to breathe on his own, even moving his hands.

“I have a focus. I am working with him everyday. Getting him better and doing all the things I need to do with Conner. It's hard and tiring, but there is a lot do to with him. I don't get much sleep at night. But it's his smile that makes it better."

Sonya’s biggest concern each day is making sure Conner is improving and worrying financially how much it will cost to do it. Within three months after the accident, Conner maxed out his $1 million medical insurance. Since his father, Kris, died in that accident, they lost their insurance altogether.

Many organizations like the Shiners, who pay for all expenses, have denied the McDougall’s three times, leaving this widow to depend on others.

“If it wasn't for the people support-wise, he would not be where we are today. You can't ask for a better community."

It’s worked, the money that has poured in from Texoma, including from our benefit concert we sponsored more than a year ago, is helping this little guy daily.

Shane says, “We see more and more progress. Once we say are we there? Is this it? We see Conner do something else.”

In the McDougall house, there’s a quote hanging up in several places that defines their faith. “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.”

“I have such a different perspective on this quote,” says Sonya, “All the memories I have of Adam and Kris are the memories that stop you and take your breath away for a second. You don't realize how precious the memories you make with your family are until something happens and you lose them.

"But we're making it, that's what's important."

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Posted by: Shriner defender on Nov 26, 2008 at 02:47 PM
I don't know this, but it would seem necessary for any organization without limitless funds to make decisions about who to help and for how much. Conner has beaten the odds, thanks to God. The Shriners may have helped a dozen children that doctors had given better odds to that wouldn't have made it without that help. That gives us in this area more incentive, though, to continue helping Sonya and Conner directly and through our prayers, since those are the most powerful gift he can receive.

Posted by: traci n da howse Location: southside, ok on Nov 26, 2008 at 01:43 AM
praise be to God our heavenly father, who art in heaven, blessed be dat name...Conner you a tru winna.. keep yo head up playa.. you gonna make it. God is in controll, he got a plan fo' ya. this go outto tha baby mama... you in our prayers, ya whole family is too yo. peace out yall.

Posted by: lady cat Location: thackerville on Nov 25, 2008 at 06:58 PM
i am interested to know why the shriners have denied conner?

Posted by: Spur 503 Location: Denison, TX on Nov 25, 2008 at 02:30 PM
Way to go Conner!! We're so proud to have been able to help with the benefit concert a while back...maybe it's time to do another one? If the interest is there, let's make it happen!!

Posted by: Bonita Location: Sherman on Nov 25, 2008 at 01:02 PM
This is only a work from the Lord and He is on His Throne doing a miracle through Conner right now, Sonya we are still praying for your family and just Thank the Lord everyday that you have Connor and what a Blessing he is to you, GOD IS AWESOME!!!!

Posted by: marie Location: ardmore,oklahoma on Nov 25, 2008 at 12:24 PM
i just want to say to if people out there dont belive god is a mirecal worker. they are wrong! god does many mirecals. he can perform anything. also sonya u are a wounderful and awsome mother. you have come a long way hun.and grandma to....lol. OUR GOD IS A AWSOME GOD!!!!!!!!!. al i can say is little conner has come a long way and have made a wonderful progress. conner you are my superman in my eyes. once again WTG CONNER YOU ROCK!!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK LITTLE MAN!!

Posted by: Paula Location: Sherman on Nov 25, 2008 at 12:15 PM
I am so glad that Conner is doing better. I wish him the best on his recovery. I can't help tearing up when I read stories like this. I hope in a few months, you will come back to us with more improvements. I know a lot of people would like to know how he is doing.

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Durant, OK on Nov 25, 2008 at 10:56 AM
I am so glad to hear how well Conner is doing. I am not a relative or even a friend of this family, but this story has touched my heart. I remember hearing the story covering the accident & felt so heart-broken for this family. To get an update like this just warms my heart. Sonya, keep up the good work! May God Bless You & Conner!!!

Posted by: Believer Location: Denison on Nov 25, 2008 at 10:53 AM
Whoever says the power of prayer does not work is only fooling themselves. This little boy is living proof and should be an inspiration to us all. God bless this entire family :)