Terminally-ill Ardmore woman offers family living in camper her home
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Posted: 6:21 PM Nov 19, 2008
Last Updated: 6:38 PM Nov 19, 2008
Reporter: Daniel Armbruster
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ARDMORE, Okla. ― Christmas is just around the corner, and Texomans are known for their charity and hospitality. A local family is in desperate need of help, and one woman is trying to come to the rescue. Daniel Armbruster has more.

You don't have to travel far to find someone in economic distress. The Turner family in Ardmore is currently living in a camper right now. With Christmas around the corner, they want a home to live in for their three kids, and with a little luck and prayer, Christmas may come early this year.

It's a story heard more and more these days ―a family unable to find work.

"My kids have never experience this before and it is hard and its hard for me as a father to have them experience this," Justin Turner says.

The Turner family says they were doing just fine. Justin turner found a job in Florida, but when the family moved, their nightmare began.

They were left with no choice but to sell everything they had and move back to Ardmore in a camper.

"Nothing works. It’s basically a shell. I mean the hot water heater for the shower doesn’t work, the air conditioning doesn’t work, the furnace doesn’t work, the stove don’t work, can’t cook. I am thankful that it is a place that we can lay our heads down at night."

They want to find a home for their three children, and with one woman's help, it may be possible. Ardmore resident Bennie Webb is terminally ill. She wants to move away to see her family and has offered her home to the Turners for as long as they need. She is too frail, and did not want to be on camera, but her friend spoke about her.

“Oh she’s sweet, kind, generous, she loves kids, animals. She’s just a wonderful woman."

This could be good news for the Turners.

"It’s a blessing, yeah. That’s all I can say. It’s enough room for our children for Christmas. That’s what we prayed about."

There are a few legal issues that still have to be dealt with, but if everything works out, The Turners hope to move into the house in about two weeks.

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Posted by: Anon Location: OK on Jan 27, 2009 at 01:45 PM
It's wonderful how people have pulled together to help a struggling family, but before you go nuts on those who are skeptical keep in mind that if this woman was really trying everything possible, one of the kids has another family who would bend over backward to help if she would let them. Sometimes it's better to just do what's best for your family and not refuse help out of spite.

Posted by: Anonymous on Jan 10, 2009 at 01:36 AM
SCAM ARTIST.....thats what these people are.....DO NOT BELIEVE these people they are playing you for a fool....I know them and I know just how lazy and vindictive they are....WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND....they are very mean, UNHOLLY people....dont let them fool you....

Posted by: Natosha Turner Location: Ardmore on Nov 29, 2008 at 09:47 PM
First of all if you think that you know about us so much then where were you when we filed our income taxes every year?I thought that only people that worked could file taxes.Mmmmm...And if you could read then you would see where I said that my husband HAS A JOB!!!And before all of this has always had a JOB!!And so have I.Your sources need to be very careful of slander.There is no system to beat we are making it ON OUR OWN as I said before we will pull ourselves out of this.Put yourself in this position and lets see if you could.Then when you can't we will say that you did it to yourself and we will offer no help and tell others not to either.You're right ,what goes around does come around and lets hope it's not your turn.For everyone else reading I think that this poor soul needs prayer.So please keep this person in mind.Thank You Natosha Turner.

Posted by: anonymous Location: ardmore on Nov 28, 2008 at 11:45 PM
i think that this is a scam as usual they know how to beat the system,i have heard alot about this family.they dont work and like to act like they dont have anything,but they put there selves in that situation if they really had it that bad they would find a job.what goes around comes around,now days if you live like that dhs would have done been involved trust and believe that. get a j o b......

Posted by: Natosha Turner Location: Ardmore on Nov 24, 2008 at 11:04 PM
Hello everyone and Thank You for those of you who have been supportive.But lets not forget about the way God meant for it to be.We are not supposed to judge others and when others judge us we are supposed to pray for them.So EVERYONE lets take a moment of silence out for those who need it on this page,for those who wanted to judge me and my family for what has happened to us,lets pray that IT NEVER HAPPENS TO THEM!!!!! Thank you,Natosha Turner.

Posted by: here Location: gone on Nov 24, 2008 at 02:47 PM
why are you guys still commenting on this Natosha told you guys that they did not get the house because the family had plans for the house when the lady passed away WHICH IS SAD SHAME ON THE FAMILY THIS LADY MAYBE WANTED TO DO A GOOD DEAD BEFORE SHE DIED GOD LORD and you people are awful some of you look my husband works all the time i work all the time and both of my kids work all the time they by their own stuff and put there own gas in car but its still hard in order for everyone to get where they need we have to have insurance which is jacked up so high i cant breath and bills are crazy we are nearly 2 months behind and we are doing the best we can very small christmas but its not the gifts you recieve ITS GIVING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: Me Location: Durant on Nov 24, 2008 at 01:12 PM
Patti, there a other places that you can get on the internet. Public libraries, hot spots, friends houses and such. If they were doing good, whose to say they didn't have a computer before. So don't judge just because they are on this website posting comments. Plus, they are defending themselves from people that are quick to judge.

Posted by: Anonymous on Nov 24, 2008 at 12:49 PM
This is a beautiful story and then all the idiots have to start saying negative things. What is wrong with accepting and giving help when it is needed? That is what is wrong with the world today. People don't help one another and others are too proud to ask. What a gracious, giving woman. May the Lord bless all involved. SINCE WHEN IS IT A CRIME TO NEED HELP!!!!!!

Posted by: Patti Location: Ardmore on Nov 23, 2008 at 11:23 PM
It's interesting to me how nothing in their camper is in working order, BUT they can still log on to the internet and post comments on this story. Hmmmm...

Posted by: tray Location: ardmore on Nov 23, 2008 at 11:24 AM
Some people cant handle good things happeing.This is how the world should be.To all the haters get over it.Try to be happy for these people.Be careful how you judge,you ever heard what goes around comes around.I thank God for such a act of kindness.Whos to say this family doesnt deseve help.People in oklahoma are so quick to judge.So sad...

Posted by: deb Location: durant on Nov 23, 2008 at 08:36 AM
hey turner family. ignore those ugly comments. you know in your heart what the real story is and GOD knows. who cares what others say. hold your head up and get on with your lives. it WAS a kind thing this women offered. and i'm sure you were overwhelmed by such a blessing even though it didn't work out. trust in the Lord and lean on him and don't worry about what others will say. good luck to you and God bless you this season.

Posted by: irritated Location: ardmore on Nov 22, 2008 at 02:06 PM
im sorry this family has to go through this, we were offered a better job and it turned out not to be so, we ended up in a similar situation. The economy is starting to take a toll on the people around here, even people i know that have really well paid jobs with both working parents are having troubles this year. Im glad there are people like this woman that are willing to give, because without those wonderful giving people, what a sad stingy world this would be. If I had the money or the house, i would offer to help these people out, though we are moving out as well to live with relatives because we cant afford our rent in a small two bedroom house not even big enough for our family. Also, someone needs to address the housing situation in ardmore, because the rent prices are ridiculous, obviously its a reflection of the economy. But a few years ago we could get a really nice house for 400 a month, and now you cant find a shack for that price.

Posted by: confused Location: Ardmore on Nov 21, 2008 at 04:21 PM
Isn't this the season for "giving". God gave his best for us in the gift of His son, Jesus! Why all the resentment for this family? In reality most of us are only a paycheck or two away from where this family is now. With all the layoffs in our area, things may get worse before they get better. I think the lady who offered her home has a kind heart and it's amazing that someone who should be thinking about her own circumstances would want to offer such a generous gift. Maybe we can't all offer a home to those in need but we can do something no matter how small to help others, and we should! This is an excellent forum for finding those in need this season. Give, even if it is just a little. You will be blessed for it. It's not our job to judge others especially if we are doing so based on a brief newstory.

Posted by: Natosha Location: For Dumbfounded on Nov 21, 2008 at 03:16 PM
First of all we are not living off of anyone for FREE.My husband has always worked and he has a job now.As for our children,they are well taken care of and it sounds like you may not have children to know where we are coming from.All we have to say to you is it sounds like you are an angry bitter person and you need someone to pray for you so our family will do this for you.God Bless you and everyone reading.The Turner Family

Posted by: L.G. Citizen Location: Lone Grove on Nov 21, 2008 at 02:02 PM
I am sorry for this family. However, sometimes it is not always good to pack up & move far away to a "better" job. Sometimes we are all better off staying where we are. I hope this family will be able to survive this situation.

Posted by: For more help, Location: check out this website. on Nov 21, 2008 at 09:24 AM
http://www.angelfoodministries.com/

Posted by: Trouble on Nov 21, 2008 at 09:20 AM
OMG!!! You know everyone has had it rough. We lived in a camper for almost a year with our children! We worked our butts off to get out of it on our OWN and we are still having trouble just like alot of Americans are i'm sure! It's possible to do it you just gotta have the will power to do so, look it's great that someone is so helpful but there are those way worse off. Some people don't have a place to lay thier head at all at least they have a roof over thier head and they are still together as a FAMILY!

Posted by: Natosha Location: Ardmore on Nov 21, 2008 at 08:51 AM
Judge us if you want to,we have tried and yes my husband finally got a job.But the story that aired on 12 was not accurate.We are not getting the house and 12 knew this before they aired it.The lady is a blessing and it was a nice offer but there are family issues.Her family has plans for the home.She did a good thing and has a good heart.It was a pleasure just to meet someone like her.Maybe some of you people should be more like her or find a new hobby than to dwell on someone's misfortune.You don't know us and how we have helped people in the past when we could.Until your in our position,I think you should have nothing to say.It's unforeseen circamstances and I'm sure we will get ourselves out of it.We did't go on aire to beg for help,we thought help had come to us,and wanted people to see what careing people do for others.Happy Holidays and God Bless to everyone reading.The Turner Family.

Posted by: dumbfounded Location: ada on Nov 20, 2008 at 08:22 PM
sounds like a dream to me guy don't work pleas to everyone to help (easy livin) they sound like a couple of flakes to me.why get a job live off of others for free where is D.H.S.anyone else would have lost their kids living like that

Posted by: deb Location: durant on Nov 20, 2008 at 08:16 PM
what a wonderful story! what a wonderful women. hey irriated, just to let you know you're not alone. my daughter just had a preemie that is in childreds hospital. with mounting medical bills and lost hours at work for both mom and dad and a six year old at home it will be a small christmas for sure. but i'm happy for this couple that has been blessed in this way. that's one less family that will have some comfort this holiday season.

Posted by: Me Location: Durant on Nov 20, 2008 at 04:23 PM
Maybe he has apps in at every place on every corner. I hate to say it, but when some employers find out that your living in a camper, they won't hire you and tell you that your just not qualified enough.. Plus, if they are living in a camper, they probably don't have a phone. How will the employers contact them? This is a wonderful woman reaching out in the community. Its a wonderful act of kindness. Like Richard said, I hope some of you don't fall into hardship like this couple....

Posted by: Richard Location: Sherman on Nov 20, 2008 at 03:46 PM
Wow most on here sound like a bunch of jaded "you know whats"... Take this story at face value... and pray your family is never in this position and if you are hope that people dont say mean things about you...

Posted by: anonymous Location: HELP on Nov 20, 2008 at 03:23 PM
If you are doing OK and can help please help your local church and salvation army or any other agencie that helps the community. There are so many people that needs help. To the irritated family could you find a DADS? or DARS? there are agencies that could help you guys but you need to reach out. We pay taxes in for some of these programs so when there is a need,try not to let your pride take over. I know its hard but there is help.God Bless and Good Luck!

Posted by: layed off work, too! Location: Lone Grove Oklahoma on Nov 20, 2008 at 02:51 PM
God bless all of the individuals involved! Good things happen....even when we dont ask for it to!

Posted by: irritated Location: ardmore on Nov 20, 2008 at 01:58 PM
We have three kids, my husband works 60 hours a week at least and we are still having trouble trying to make our bills, we have sold just about everything, i cant work due to health problems and a bad heart and we are about to be evicted, if it wasnt for my grandmother giving us a place to stay we would be living in a shelter. Does this guy have a job? No one has given us anything, and we wouldnt dare ask it of anyone.. our family is our responsibility. I cant afford my kids christmas this year, but we are going to donate the toys they do have that they dont play with, because though we would seem to be in need, there are others that have it worse.

Posted by: Trouble on Nov 20, 2008 at 12:02 PM
Sounds like they need to get a JOB! There are JOBS out there. Flip burgers if you have to.

Posted by: annoyed on Nov 20, 2008 at 11:02 AM
it sounds like to me someone is looking for a free ride there's job's here you have to go look for them they don't come to you.

Posted by: concerned on Nov 20, 2008 at 10:59 AM
i really hope someone checks out these people to where they don't take advantage of this good hearted lady sounds really fishy to me.young man don't work!hmmm!!!

Posted by: Mythoughts Location: Ardmore on Nov 20, 2008 at 08:42 AM
Christmas is coming!!! I love stories like this. They remind us of all the good in people instead of the bad. May we all have safe and happy holidays. :o]

Posted by: Cindy Location: Area on Nov 20, 2008 at 08:21 AM
See people --Angels still exist!

Posted by: me Location: oklahoma on Nov 20, 2008 at 07:51 AM
totally amazing. GOD BLESS THEM ALL

Posted by: Anonymous on Nov 20, 2008 at 07:48 AM
That is so kind. Good luck to the family.

Posted by: Ardmore Location: Ardmore on Nov 19, 2008 at 11:39 PM
Bless this woman. What a wonderful act of kindness. Happy Holidys to you all and Good luck to the Turner family and Bennie Webb, a truly exceptional person.

Posted by: Faith Location: and Works on Nov 19, 2008 at 09:25 PM
Faith and works come together so beautifully in this story. I not only hope that Mr. Turner will profit tenfold for his trials eventually, but, I also will pray with faith that Ms. Webb is going to not only reap what she sowed but that she will go beyond this point of duty, and will be a living testimony of God's greatness. God CAN and WILL help those He so chooses. For Ms. Webb's heartfelt kindness and her selflessness, may God increase her lifespan. Let it be bound in Heaven as it is on Earth, that she live on to enjoy her decision and have more time to make more beautiful choices. Her obituary will wait. She's got more to learn and experience on this earth. Let no one be surprised when they hear the good news. This lady is going to live. She was mean to be with her family for whatever reason. God brought her back to take care of some things. She will go back to the fold when God is ready to call her. God bless you all in this matter!!

Posted by: cabo wabo Location: Durant on Nov 19, 2008 at 09:05 PM
What a wonderful lady Bennie Webb must be.Great story and i hope it works out.

Posted by: Anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 at 07:57 PM
With all violence and anger we hear about so often these days, it's nice , no wonderful, to hear about someone, who's facing a terrible time of her own, has the heart to help others in need. God Bless the Turner family, and especially their benefactor, Bennie Webb .

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Durant on Nov 19, 2008 at 07:52 PM
It is sure nice to know that there are still some wonderful people out there. The woman who is letting them use her home is a god sent. Just proof that good still exsists !!!

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